This "little" thing called love...

I feel a little itch at the tips of my fingers everyday... I want to come here and write new posts... I just feel that I don't have much to say at times and I simply don't write aything until I feel I do... I prefer to write an in-depth post than a simple one everyday, I feel that by doing that I might actually be creating something of content (what kind of content can be argued, but content nonetheless hehe)

First of all I want to thank Shay for his compliments on the comments of my last post, it was very sweet of you my friend... and regarding you thanking me for taking your comment seriously, I have to say you are more than welcome... you made a great point and I would have been silly not to point it out... and I am afraid (happy) to say that this post will include another one of your comments... :D

I am pleased to admit I am not as bitter and I sounded in the last couple of posts... no special reason I guess, I think I just came to realize there isn't much to fret over... and it's time to let life run it's course... What is meant to happen will...

Shay commented on the last post and said (in part):

"and couple more things i learned (on flesh) about love and the games are that in order for two people to fall in love, they both must be in a very unique and special state of mind.. that's obviously rare.. the second is that i'm not sure if there's this one person who will be all these things you describe.. maybe you can have a best friend who will fulfill the best-friend role, in addition to the men you're searching for..."

I have a few things to say in response to this...

1 - Shay, I love your blog, your videos and pics... but I would definatelly like to hear more about your personal experiences... the "i learned (on flesh) about love and the games" part, made me curious... lol

2 - You are so right when you talk about the timing to fall in love... it must be right and it is incredibly rare... I have never been in love (I can hear the "awwwwwww" coming from you guys hehe), most people say that, that is sad... but it is my reality... I have friends that have been in love and I hear their description... it sounds amazing and definatelly something I intend to experience someday... My time just hasn't arrived yet... I have had crushes, but they are not the same and definatelly not as fulfulling... I know, a lot of you (lol I sound like Im speaking to an audience... hehe what a joke :P) will say that love hurts, that is not easy... I know that... the same way I have witnessed my friends in love I have witnessed them suffering from it and I can say I'm not looking at it with "utopical" eyes... but I trully believe in a line I heard a few times: "It is better to have loved and hurt than to have never loved at all" (I dont think its exactly that, but it i something like that)... I'm in no hurry, I'm not desparate, I'm not runing around trying to find love... I am living, trying to enjoy what life puts in my way and I am always open for new adventures and the future...

and finally...

3 - Once more, you are right Shay... It's easier having a best friend to fulfil the best friend role in addition to your mate... but even so, I still believe that for a relationship to succeed there has to be some kind of companionship/friendship involved... I can't imagine myself with someone I don't have fun with, that I can't have an interesting conversation with and so on...
It's funny, me and Moischa (my best friend, whom I love to death) used to talk about this... that we are so perfect for each other, such soulmates that any man would fail in comparison... I think that when it comes to the friendship part, yes... but the connection that exists when you are in love is definatelly diferent and much more fulfilling in a bunch of diferent ways...

Again, I would like to thank Shay for the thoughtful comments he leaves here... I appreciate it a lot... and for once again giving me fuel to write...

I have some things on my mind... some analysis I have been making of the world around me... so, I will be back with new posts very soon...

Song of the moment (for me):

"I'm not gonna write you a love song
'cause you asked for it
'cause you need one, you see
I'm not gonna write you a love song
'cause you tell me
it'sMake or breaking this
If you're on your way
I'm not gonna write you to stay
If all you have is leaving
I'm gonna need a better
Reason to write you a love song today"

- Sara Bareilles - Love Song -

I couldn't embed the video... the link for the official video is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MR5xv3pt7KI

enjoy... and let me know what you guys think...