I used to have a relationship with this Mexican guy (let's call him "The Mexican") about 2 years ago. It lasted 7 months and then we stopped seeing each other. It wasn't a serious relationship and he actually wanted to end it because he was starting a serious one with some one else. No, I wasn't really upset. We don't live in the same city and we didn't see each other regularly and I was actually happy for him. However, we never spoke after that...
The beginning of this year I "ran into" him on my MSN and for no reason I decided to say hi. I had a BF at the time (we all know how THAT ended! If not, see it here) and was actually curious to know what had been going on with him. We talked and right away he was hitting on me lol. I told him I had a BF, but we actually kept in contact after that...
Since then we have talking on and off, and he has been inviting me to come over and visit him. I don't know if I'm still interested in him like that anymore, though we had great chemistry together. Well, a recent talk with him just put the nail on that coffin...
Apparently he has a GF now and says they have an "open relationship" lol. Ok, I am going to refrain from expressing my thoughts on THAT, for now. In a recent call HE made, he actually invited me for a THREESOME with her and him, and actually said he thought me and her would "get along" LOL! My response was to start laughing and immediately utter the words: "Not gonna happen" hehe. He laughed and said he didn't think I'd say yes, but that he had to try... LOL!
That reminded me that, that was not the first time I have had that sort of invitation... once in a club a couple guys invited me for a threesome as well... Though that invitation I didn't dignify with a response =/
All that, got me to thinking on what was my opinion on threesomes. I got to the conclusion that I don't think I would be totally against it if I was a part of the couple. NOT the third party invited, that would make me feel used and not be much fun at all...
I guess this post might have been a bit TMI... Though I have always said this blog is up for anything :P
What about you? Is Three a crowd in the bedroom or NOT?
Let me know what you think :)
Next post I'll review the Dante Valentine Series by Lilith Saintcrow - STAY TUNED!
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lol - the whole 'open relationship' concept is so completely male. It basically means "I get regular sex, with the option of more on the side if I can find it".
Hmm, Threesomes -yay or nay? I've gotta say 'yay'. Guy/Guy/Girl or Girl/Girl/Guy or even all guys/all girls - I have nothing against them. But I don't think it's something I would do if I were in a relationship with someone - I do get jealous, and I couldn't handle seeing my significant other with someone else. I would much rather be the 'third wheel'.
But that reminds me of that 'Sex and the City' episode where Charlotte tries to have a three-way with a couple, but ends up getting left out and pushed off the bed. lol
P.S. - i look forward to what you think of the Saintcrow series.
I had forgotten about the sex and the city thing, great example lol... There was also one with samantha, richard and this blond bimbo chick lol
Im crawling through the last of the DV series by Lilith.
The second of her YA series came out today and its already waiting for me hehe
I think Ill have it done at latest tomorrow night :)
I am not into threesomes. I want all the attention all the time. Doesn't work well for someone with jealousy problems ;]
But to each their own! The threesome scenes in the Anita Blake series are hot- maybe I would rethink my stance if I had two hot males madly in love with me and didn't have to share them. haha.
lol if I had a Micah, Richard, Nathaniel, Jean-Claude lol a combination of me and any of those hotties would work hahahaha
HAHA! I totally agree. I would NOT mind being with any of those men... at the same time. haha. That series really made me look at threesomes in a new light. peeeehehe
you've said it... but who in their right would not even consider a 3some with any of Anita's men. That girls is seriously lucky :P well, we can say the same for Merry hehe
Yes, Anita is way too lucky. Haha! I haven't read the Merry series!! I have book 1 & 2, they've been just sitting at my house forever being neglected. Should I get on the ball and read them??
well, the merry books, believe it or not, cant get even more erotic than anita's hehe But they are great books with great characters, her journey through the first 7 books is very interesting and the plot s very good :) I totally recommend. I am anxiously awaiting Merry's book 8 next month :P
Alright! I will plan on getting the next ones that come out then! Shit, I have so much to read... haha, Weather Warden and Merry Gentry!
lol my TBR pile gets bigger by the day hehe